I
am much undecided when it comes to this subject as I have been on both sides of
the issue. As a health care
professional, I understand that patients should always be the center of
care. We have to be responsible and hold
ourselves accountable for our actions and our work. However, I also believe that as a patient, I
have an obligation to be proactive with my care and in-tune with my body, and I
encourage my loved ones to take the same approach.
Last
year, just after Thanksgiving, my mother underwent minimally invasive robotic
surgery. She took very good care of her
body pre-op and tried to follow her doctors’ orders post-op, to the T. Being the holiday season and just weeks
before Christmas, she decided it would be nice to slowly stroll through the
mall. My father would do all the
reaching and lifting, she would just do the pointing and smiling (or so she
said-- I’m sure she did a little more than she should have). My parents then decided to host Christmas
dinner at their house. My mom did most
of the cooking which meant she was on her feet most of the day. Sure enough, she went to bed that night, feeling
lousy and exhausted. By 4am, the next
morning, she was startling my dad out of his sleep because she was bleeding at
the surgery site and wanted to go into the emergency room. By 7am, she was in the operating room. As we all suspected, she over extended
herself. The verdict was that a few
internal stitches came loose. Her
recovery time and post-op orders hit a hard-reset.
Who
was to blame in this situation? Although
she is my mother, I would have to secretly say it’s her fault. I’m sure her physician, Dr. Reynolds, was
frightened going into the emergency surgery worrying she made some critical
error. Dr. Reynolds did everything she
was supposed to do [clinically] and can feel at ease with that. What she did not do, was get to know my
mother personally and know that if she gave her an inch, she would take a
foot. She told my mom she could do some
light walking not knowing my mom would hear “go Christmas shopping and cook a
15-pound turkey”.
In
this situation (and because I know better than she), my mother, the patients’
perspective should not be the most important determinant in this adverse
event. My mom was upset and might have
wanted to blame everyone in the OR but it was really her doings resulted in an
adverse event. If my mother didn’t have
myself (a young health care professional) and my sister (a 4-th year medical
student) telling Dr. Reynolds the real deal with the adverse event, she could
have had a malpractice suit in her hands.
In
this field and in this country, I have learned that it is almost a part of the
American culture to sue anyone who makes you feel slighted. My mother could have easily gone in with my
father shouting “wait for a call from my attorney” and no one would disagree
with her. Too many people hold their
physicians up higher than they should and get away with it. Doctors are not gods. But a lot of patients are ignorant to their
responsibility to be accountable for their care just as they expect their
doctors to be. Doctors should be able to
feel comfortable and confident in their delivery of care. The only way they would feel that is if their
were laws protecting them and enforcing patients to be responsible and alert
when it comes to their health.